Reasons to smile

Dress: Wednesday’s Girl at ASOS (aff. link) | Shoes: c/o Ego shoes a couple of years ago

It’s been a funny couple of weeks, like a lot of people I haven’t really been feeling like myself and I think that finally the impact of Covid-19, lockdown and finding a work-life balance has taken hold.
From disturbed sleep to general anxiety and irritability, it’s been a stressful time trying to pinpoint what’s wrong- after a while I gave up trying to work out why and just focused on getting through.
Bob and I took these photos just before the dip in my mood happened, taking a Saturday morning stroll to our new favourite photo spot (and when I say new favourite, I mean our only photo spot right now!) and I thought it would be good to share both the photos and five things that are making me smile right now- because taking stock of what’s important and what makes you happy is one of the biggest boosts you can give yourself.

  1. Wedding! As of today I have been engaged to Bob for an entire year and wedding excitement is building. It’s 475 days until we say “I do” and I’m so impatient. Wedding planning is taking shape- we’ve got the venue, the photographer, a vague idea of colour scheme and I’ve just booked some appointments to try on dresses in September- I have no idea what I want but I’m looking forward to dressing up! I honestly cannot wait to marry Bob, although I may be driving him slightly mad with all the wedding chat.
  2. Sunshine: I always find everything easier to deal with when the sun is shining and thankfully over the last couple of weeks we have had some glorious days. Bob and I have spent a lot of time outside getting our garden in shape and I’m loving having an outside space to relax. We’ve got some runner beans and cucumbers growing and I really hope to get a good haul from both (but I seem to have green thumbs so we’ll see!)
  3. Baking: Baking is my therapy and like many others during lockdown I’ve fully embraced it. Cookies seem to be my current “thing” and I’ve made some absolute winners. It’s got to the point now where people are asking me NOT to bake as they are all trying to lose the lockdown weight gain, but I will not be deterred.
  4. Pablo: Our little furry fiend certainly keeps us on our toes with his talent for falling off of window sills in the early hours and his particular quirks around food (he will only eat out of a certain blue bowl!) He has grown up to be such a mummy’s boy and loves to cuddle especially when I get home from work, it’s the best remedy to a stressful day.
  5. Seeing People: After weeks and weeks of not being able to see family and friends it’s such a relief to now be able to spend time with them, even if it is from a 2 metre distance. Yesterday we spent a glorious hour with my parents in their garden, and I’ve enjoyed some visits to my Grandad too when I have dropped off his shopping. I’m super excited for a socially distanced catch up with my best friend this coming week… there’s nothing like time with loved ones to lift your spirits.

Has anyone else found things a bit tricky over the last few weeks? Feel free to list your own reasons to smile in the comments, it helps, trust me!

Feline Fine

Cat Print Dress: Joy

Excuse the super cheesy title, but when a post contains so much cat related goodness there really is little else it could have been.

Two weeks ago it was my birthday, and I celebrated turning the grand old age of 33 in lockdown, just like many others have done and will continue to do.
It was a strange birthday, that much is for sure, but in it’s own way it was lovely. Spent with Bob, in my pjs, speaking to family and friends on the phone or by the dreaded video call. We drank gin and Bob cooked my favourite dinner and that was that. I’d taken the day off work anyway and decided to keep it. Maybe I’ll celebrate again later in the year, but maybe I won’t; once you get past a certain age birthdays really become much less of a big deal!

I hit the kitty jackpot when it came to gifts. Bob bought me this incredible geo-cat print dress from Joy which has been on my wish list since it first landed on their website. It truly is a dress of dreams, not only has it got the coolest print ever (fact), but it also makes me feel good when I wear it, which right now is no mean feat.

We’re both off work this week as we were meant to be up in Scotland on a big family holiday- with Bob’s mum, his brother and his other half, his cousins, aunts, uncles and friends, but alas that wasn’t to be but we decided we’d have the week at home anyway. We’ve both been working full time throughout lockdown, and I for one was definitely very ready for a break from dealing with Covid-19 related chaos on a daily basis. Obviously we don’t have plans to do much, but we’ve done some local walks and I’m in the process of up-cycling a bird table.

I hesitated over posting this photo as I’m really struggling with various body image woes at the moment and currently my face is one of my “I can’t stand it” targets for reasons I don’t even think I can begin to rationalise…
But here it is anyway, because I wanted to share another cat themed birthday gift, this time from my lovely mother in law to be.

This is another item that has been on my wish list from the second it launched- this adorable tiny kittens necklace from Amanda Coleman jewellery. This so perfectly fits my more minimal taste in jewellery that I’ve developed as I’ve got older, whilst remaining quirky (and feline) enough to reflect my style.

I hope everyone is staying safe (and alert?!) and finding ways to keep themselves amused.
I’m not going to make any real promises but I do feel like I might be starting to love the idea of blogging again, so maybe, just maybe there will be more frequent posting for the next little while (but like I said, no promises!)

Irresistible Luxuries to Treat Yourself to This Summer*

Photo by Jessica Weiller on Unsplash

You definitely deserve a treat this summer; in these trying times why not resort to a little pampering to cheer yourself up? It’s sunny outside so why not bring that sparkle in? Turn your house into a spa, treat yourself to some little presents, and see yourself glow inside and out this summer. Here are some suggestions for luxury ways to indulge at home.

Boozy Treats

Treat yourself to a box of craft beer. Beer52 offers monthly subscriptions of artisanal ales from around the globe. They’re perfect for chilling in the garden when the weather is fine. For a more sophisticated option, you could up your wine game a little. If you’re a budding sommelier or just interested in learning more about wine, some companies are offering virtual tastings such as a grape night in and winetrust100. Why not treat yourselves and give it a try? You’re probably saving a few pennies from not going out. You’ll never go bottom shelf again. 

Photo by Cody Chan on Unsplash

Spa Sensations

If you’re in need of a bit of pampering at the moment what could be better than turning your bathroom into a spa for the day? Try an exfoliating selection like this luxury coffee scrub box made of delicious natural ingredients. Exfoliating removes the dead outer layer of skin, allowing the younger, smoother skin below to reflect the light. Wake up your skin and smell the coffee! The Microdelivery Resurfacing Peel Collection is also highly-recommended and not only does it exfoliate but it’s reported to even your skin tone. It’s well worth splashing out on, and won’t need to be a frequent part of your skincare routine. Give yourself a facial once a month and you’ll see the results. 

Bathe in Luxury

If you’re looking to really relax try out a few of these Lush bath bombs. Good enough to eat, Lush bath bombs come in a range of exciting flavours and add colour and glitter to your bath too. You’ll feel like a princess in no time with all that sparkle. 

Photo by Maddi Bazzocco on Unsplash

Dry off with a John Frieda Hot Air Styler. This drying and styling brush is easy to use and will give you luscious locks in minutes. Get styling practice in now so you’re ready to show off your new look in the summer. 

Dazzling Diamonds

It’s getting hot outside so freshen up with a little bit of ice. If you’re looking to treat yourself or your partner make sure you consult yourdiamondguru.com/a-guide-to-vvs-diamonds/ first, to get all the info you need on diamond types, size, and shape. The hypnotic shine of these precious jewels will leave you dazzled otherwise. 

Gorgeous Scents

There’s no excuse not to smell nice even if you’re only at home. Treat yourself to some new perfume this season, check out a few of Cosmopolitan’s best new fragrances this year. Whatever your style, fruity-floral or earthy musk there’s a new fragrance for you. Big names like Dior, YSL, and Gucci are all up there, so enjoy!



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Loungewear Life with Femme Luxe*

Tracksuit c/o Femme Luxe*

Undoubtedly the biggest trend in fashion right now is loungewear, it might not be the most flattering of ensembles but it sure is comfortable, and very forgiving- perfect for accommodating all of those lockdown snacks!
I might be going to work each day, but trust me, the second I get home I am straight in to my comfy clothes, and this tracksuit that I was kindly sent by Femme Luxe is my new favourite thing to chill out in.

Tee c/o Femme Luxe*

Along with the tracksuit I was sent this t-shirt which is THE perfect oversized tee, ideal for wearing with the jogging bottoms for some hard work in our poor, neglected little garden, or for slinging on with jeans. This is literally my dream fit for a t-shirt (and yet I failed to get a decent photo of it) and I’ll definitely be picking up a few more for every day wear.

Lockdown life is strange, I’m not one of those people who can sit around the house doing not a lot. I like to be busy, I like to have missions and I think I’d be going stir-crazy if I didn’t have to leave the house each day for work.
But at the same time I am enjoying the enforced staying at home on the weekends, and on my birthday. Bob and I are working our way through Vikings on Amazon prime, we’ve finally started to overhaul our garden after neglecting it last year, and I’ve done more baking in the last few weeks than I have in the last few years.
I think this can teach us all some valuable lessons about how to relax, how to take pleasure in being at home. It’s hard not to see family or friends, especially when they all live so near by, but I know, personally that I’ll enjoy every second I get to spend with them once this ends.

See the full loungewear collection

One thing I will miss when things start to go back to normal is the wearing of pyjamas or loungewear all weekend long. Tracksuits for the weekend, a day in leggings and a giant blanket for my birthday… there’s nothing better after a manic day at work than changing in to a fresh set of comfies and collapsing on the sofa with a g&t in one hand and some snacks in the other!

Five Ways To Treat Yo’ Self*

Self-care is one of the biggest trends swirling around the internet universe right now, and for a good reason. Self-care is all about putting yourself first, and that’s not all that common anymore. There is so much research to show that self-care is excellent for your mental health, so why wouldn’t treating yourself be a good thing? 

There is a lot of guilt that surrounds taking a moment for yourself, but that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t. You need to be able to take a moment for yourself or buy yourself something new. It would help if you considered that spending the money on a new car with Reed Autos is going to be a good thing for your day to day life as well as a handy thing to have on the go. The good news is that there are several ways that you can treat yourself for a change, and you can change it today. Let’s take a look…


  • Choose a spa day. It would help if you thought about how much time you spend hunched over a computer every day. Massages are proven to be beneficial for the whole body; whether it’s to ease muscle pain or to soothe anxiety, massage is fantastic. A day at a spa is going to feel life-changing, exceptionally when you are aching every single day.
  • Get into someone else’s world. What we mean is that you need to pick up a book and read it cover to cover for once. You need to snuggle down and read and be comfortable. You may not want to dedicate a whole week to reading, but you can still dive into someone else’s imagination.
  • Going shopping – it’s a must! Retail therapy needs to be controlled here, as “treat yo’ self is something that should be “treat yourself within your budget!” Buy that beautiful new jacket, or the leather bag you love so much!
  • Go to the movies alone. You don’t have to get a group of friends together to go to the movies. Get yourself some snacks, settle into a comfortable seat at the movies, and enjoy an immersive experience. You can really love the time you spend alone at a movie theatre when you don’t have someone sharing snacks or asking you questions. 
  • Get outside for once. How often do you walk outside and just take an extra-large breath? Get yourself to the nearest field, beach, or forest and just breathe. There’s something so therapeutic in the air that we breathe, and when you can be in gorgeous surroundings, your body will relax.

These five ways to treat yourself are going to be the first port of call. You can do so many other things to look after yourself, but start here, and you can embrace a little life. You deserve to feel looked after, but you begin by looking after yourself. Self-care is not selfish. In fact, self-care is the best thing that you could do for your emotional and mental wellbeing.

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