The Purrfect Jacket from Miss Patina

Oh hello, long time no post- there’s a serious lack of blogging mojo around these parts at the moment, coupled with generally being busy and struck down with some crazy flu type virus- great start to 2018!

Anyway, I’m showing my face around here today as I wanted to show off one of my Christmas presents before the festive season is still vaguely in people’s minds. I’m not usually one to do a show and tell of gifts I’ve received but I do make exception for something particularly awesome, and I am pretty sure this jacket qualifies.

Jacket: Miss Patina | Dress: New Look

The second I spotted this jacket I knew I needed it. I just love the Miss Patina store, my wish list from there goes on for eternity but it’s a bit out of my price range, so when it was suggested I had this as a Christmas present from my Grandad I jumped at the chance.

I don’t really “do” jackets like this usually, I live in cardigans and coats 90% of the time, but I figured that was even more excuse to own this- a much smarter alternative to baggy knitwear now I actually venture out to the odd social occasion.

Please excuse my slightly dishevelled appearance, aforementioned busy life and current state of malaise mean keeping well presented has fallen by the wayside. Probably should make a late new years resolution to make more effort!

I hope everyone is well and keeping chipper during this gloomy first month of the year- have you been up to anything exciting? Let me know in the comments.

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The Necessary Post Christmas Recovery Path*

For a lot of Britons January often feels like a battleground, standing wounded on the battlefield in ruins and wondering what kind of magical potions you’ll need to drink to recover from the damages. Admittedly, Christmas is nothing like a war of titans, but it does affect your wellbeing at a deeper level- so much so that you need to dedicate the first few weeks of the new year to your recovery. Don’t be fooled by the term Post-Christmas recovery though, it has nothing to do with the time off after a physical injury or an illness. It’s more about considering the impact of the financial, emotional and physical rush that most people go through during the festive season. Whether you feel tired, or you’re struggling to pay your January bills there is a solution to speed up the recovery path and embrace the new year positively.

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Problem one- you were so generous that you’re broke:
Would you believe that a lot of people put themselves inadvertently in a debt situation as a result of a Christmas shopping frenzy? Unfortunately it is now a part of the traditional spirit of Christmas. You simply want to please your relatives and closest friends so you find it difficult not to buy them the best gifts – even if it means spending more than you earn. After all, that’s why credit cards were invented weren’t they? Wrong! If you’ve been overspending it’s time to wake up and take your finances back under control. You may need to apply for a payday loan at Personal Money Store to sort out the first bills of the month but this shouldn’t become a habit. Prepare your monthly budget to define how much you need to repay – including the payday loan – and work on your saving strategy. January is a month for frugality: Spend less and only wisely, and if you’ve got birthdays coming set a spending limit for everyone! A last piece of advice: Give the credit card a rest!

Problem two- your skin is telling you you’ve over-indulged over the Christmas period:
Unless you’ve been baking healthy treats over Christmas, it’s likely that you’ve taken your body through some food-related abuses. No, we’re not talking calories but body fuel. There are only so much high sugar and fat content your body can take. For instance, food with a high GI and dairy can trigger and aggravate acne. So if you’re dealing with an acne outbreak, or with dull-looking skin, it’s time to change your diet to address it. Focus on antioxidants, such as red berries, to clear your skin. You will also need to drink plenty of water to rehydrate your body and help your skin to feel rejuvenated. Finally, your eating habits and schedules need to get back to normal. While it’s rather common to have endless Christmas meals and treats throughout the day during the festive season, you need to stop eating at least two hours before going to bed and reduce your caffeine intake too.

Problem three- you’re exhausted after the family high:
Spending time with your family feels great, especially if you don’t see each other often. But it can be highly stressful too, especially as you try to spend time with everyone during the holiday. So if going back to work or school has felt like the worst thing ever, there’s probably a good explanation for it: you’re exhausted. Feeling tired all the time is actually a medical condition called fatigue, and it might even impact your memory, concentration and sleep patterns. In other words, you can’t just switch back to work without helping your body to recover from the stressful family time. It might sound counterproductive at first, but working out will boost your metabolism to recover and will provide you with a burst of energy. Additionally, it will help you to sleep better, which is another great tip to feel less tired!

Problem four- you need time for yourself:
And finally, there’s no denying that the Christmas holiday can feel overwhelming, especially as you spend time with your relatives. You might not have any time for yourself, and it’s a bad idea to go back to work without taking some necessary me time. There’s no need to book a January holiday to recover. But you should be scheduling time for yourself, such as saving a few weeknights for you and forgetting overtime. Focus on what you want to do. It doesn’t matter if it’s gardening or painting your nails. Me time is precious and helps to rest the mind.

How are you coping with the post Christmas recovery? I find being back at work a great healer, although I probably in the minority there!

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The Year that Everything Changed

This is probably the first year since I started this blog where I’m not sitting down to write a recap post of the year just gone. Quite simply, I don’t feel able to. I started 2017 a completely different person to that which I am now and to try and put it in to words is just too overwhelming.

What I will say though is that 2017 is the year that everything changed. I’m the happiest, most confident and truest version of myself than I ever have been. For that I thank my family, for never giving up on me. I thank Bob for showing me what it is to be loved and valued in a way that I’ve never been loved or valued before. To my employers for not giving up on me. And to my friends for the continued love and support, and finally, I thank my GP for not giving up on me either.

This has been a year where I achieved things I never thought possible, and pulled myself out of a hole I thought I’d be stuck in forever.

I’ll take a minute to outline my biggest achievement, and that was to go back to my old school, to the year and building where my eating disorder began and share my story with year 11 students in the hopes that maybe, just maybe it could make a difference to even one person. So they might feel they can get help sooner rather than later (my biggest regret) and not turn 30 with the shadow of an eating disorder still lurking over them.

It’s been a truly amazing year involving new people, new places, new experiences and new kittens. I’ve proven to myself what hard work and determination can do and I’m truly bloody excited for what 2018 has in store. I feel like the best way to show what 2017 has looked like for me is to share the adventures and experiences that the year ahead holds as they happen…I’m confident now that life can and will only get better and hopefully that leads to fresh, new and exciting content on this here piece of the internet too.

To each and every person that reads my blog I wish you a very Happy New Year. The friends I’ve made through this community, the support I’ve received and continue to receive is something I’ll be forever grateful for and one day will repay.

Bring it on 2018, I’m ready for you.

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Keeping Active This Winter*

There’s a massive temptation to go in to hiberation mode when winter hits, I’m not a fan of the cold so when temperatures plummet or it’s windy and raining hard I roll down my blind, make a cup of tea and pretend the outdoors doesn’t exist. Still, with the season of over-indulgence upon us, not to mention that sometimes winter can throw some truly stunning days at us I thought I’d pop together a post of things to do and places to visit as motivation to keep active even on the coldest and darkest days.

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My one and only try and indoor skiing did not end well, but I’m always down for a laugh so somewhere like Chill Factore in Manchester sounds right up my street. With skiing and snowboarding lessons available I’m fairly confident I could eventually master the art of staying upright, which leads me right on to my next destination of choice…Scotland.

I fell in love with The Highlands when I visited with Bob in September. During the drive from Inverness to Gairloch he was telling me about the ski resorts dotted around and I’d absolutely love to go there with him. Given that Bob has worked a couple of ski seasons in France, and has had plenty of skiing holidays I’ll need some serious lessons before I’d brave the slopes with him, but I really like the idea of skiing in the UK and I have friends who do just that on a regular basis.

A bit closer to home and I am desperate to visit the Icescape at the Tropicana in Weston-Super-Mare before it closes on the 7th January. I love ice skating and was gutted when Bristol’s rink closed down some years back- this is literally twenty minutes from my door and even as I type this I’m wondering why I haven’t booked a session yet.

Finally, for those bright and beautiful days that winter occasionally bestows upon us I have Westonbirt Arboretum on my list of places to visit. Again, this is somewhere pretty much on my doorstep, and somewhere I have visited a few times in the past (and loved). I’m just waiting for the next crisp, bright day to pull on my boots and drag Bob out for an invigorating stroll.

What are some of your favourite winter activities? Do you struggle with keeping active in the colder months?

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Keeping Safe on the Roads this Winter*

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With the recent cold snap and icy road conditions there has been a marked increase in the number of accidents being reported on the roads. Obviously road safety is paramount in all seasons but it pays to take extra care in the winter months and today I’m sharing some easy ways that you can make sure you stay safe on the roads when the conditions are less than ideal.
Cold weather can cause all sorts of damage your car- from the tyre pressure through to fuel economy, and as cold weather thickens fluids it’s vital to check the levels of things like oil, antifreeze and brake fluids. It also pays to get your brakes looked at, if you’re in Scotland you can book your car brakes fitting service in Stirling at Fife Autocentre website and a quick google will tell you where you can book in for other parts of the country.

The colder months can also impact your car’s battery and it’s performance. With increased use of headlights and heating it is 100% worth booking in for a battery check before the next cold snap to help prevent unexpected breakdowns- who wants to be stuck at the side of a road when they could be wrapped up warm indoors?

If you’ve got a long trip planned then keep a close eye on the weather reports for that day and plan accordingly. If extreme, or adverse conditions are predicted then it is worth considering whether you can set off a day or so either side.

Visibility is another potential hazard at this time of year. Ensure your windscreen is clear of snow and ice before setting off and make sure all of your lights are in full working order to ensure other road users can see you. A dead bulb is annoying for anyone at the best of times, but in winter weather conditions it’s downright dangerous.

Keep an eye on your speed in icy conditions or heavy rain- this reduces your risk of skidding and minimises the risk not only to yourself, but to other road users. You should also carry a winter breakdown kit (torch, blanket, de-icer, basic food and drink) incase you do end up stranded- some extra warm clothes would also be a good idea.

Finally, if you know the weather is going to be against you but you can’t avoid your journey then allow extra time for making it- and remember not to pour boiling water on to your windscreen to de-ice it, it’s amazing how many people I’ve seen do that!

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