Handy Hints for Handling Travel Delays and Cancellations*

Regardless of whether you travel regularly or not, there’s a good chance that you’ll end up experiencing a flight delay or cancellation at some point in your life. Unfortunately, though our airlines are currently more innovative, and well-organised than ever, they’re not immune to the everyday issues that can cause all of us a little trouble. Anything from a technology issue, to a strike, or even a sudden thunderstorm could leave your flight grounded.
There may be nothing that you can do to eliminate your chances of suffering from a flight delay or cancellation completely. However, the good news is that there are steps you can take to make sure that you come through the experience with as little stress as possible. Here are our top tips.

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Travel Light and keep your Info Handy

First up, although there are some trips that you’ll need to pack heavily for – a month-long vacation with the whole family or a gap year for example, but there are other journeys that you can take with less weight on your back. Not only will travelling light make your experience more comfortable but it could make it easier to hop onto the next available flight faster when yours is cancelled.
Ultimately, the airline reps are going to place people who don’t have baggage to find on flights first because they’re less hassle to deal with. Keep all your belongings in one place and you’ll be ready to go at a moment’s notice. Make sure you have all your flight information at hand too so that you can offer up your details in an instant.

Switch on Your Smartphone

Most of us go everywhere with our technology these days so making sure you have your smartphone with you for your next flight shouldn’t be too much of a hassle. However, it’s worth making sure that you have an extra battery pack or charger handy just in case you’re held up.
When you’re hit by a flight delay or cancellation a phone comes in handy by making sure that you’re not stuck in a long line of other people who are complaining about the same thing as you. Get in touch with the airline reps in a different way- by calling their number, or reaching out on social media instead. Some air companies will even have their own apps that you can download and use to get faster customer service.

Know Your Rights

In the UK and across Europe if the flight delay or cancellation you suffer from was caused by something that the airline could control, and it lasts longer than three hours then you should be eligible for some compensation. The best thing you can do is find out as much as you can about your airline’s compensation policy by checking out their website – you can even read up before your flight if it helps.
Additionally, make sure that you keep hold of all the information you might need to make a claim when you get back home – including the names of the people you speak to and any receipts for food or drinks you buy in the airport.

Research Your Options

If you’re going to be on your phone anyway, then you might as well use the time you have to learn as much as you can about what’s going on with your flight. Find out why your plane has been grounded, and whether the cause is going to impact any of the other airlines that come to your airport. If the reason for your cancellation or delay is something that has nothing to do with the weather or something similar then you might be able to find an alternative flight with another airline.
If you can’t wait around for your airline rep to find a solution for you then you can always present the option you have found to them and see whether they can help you out with it.

Keep Your Mind Occupied and Calm
Finally, if your flight has been delayed or cancelled it’s important not to let it ruin your entire trip. One little hiccup doesn’t spell disaster. Take the extra time you have to relax, explore the airport, or even make some new friends by talking to someone in the same situation as you. If you’re travelling a long way and you’re exhausted you could even catch up on some shut-eye if you can find a safe place to rest.
Keeping yourself calm and entertained will also mean that you’re less likely to throw a tantrum and ruin your chances of getting a quick solution to your problem too.

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Losing the fear of being judged by others

For as long as I can remember a fear of being judged by other people has held me back. I never spoke out at school, always tried to fit in with the norm and stopped myself accepting many opportunities that have come my way purely because I was so anxious about what other people might think of me that it was just easier to say no.

For the most part I’m much better with this these days. I’ve learnt to trust in my ability, and my opinion and don’t hold back anywhere near as much as I used to. I’ve gone from isolating myself and not socialising to pushing myself to interact and go to things…it’s not perfect, but a far cry from how it used to be.

There is however, one huge area where this fear of judgement holds me back, and that is my weight. I’ve had an eating disorder for 16 years and whilst weight loss was more of a side-effect of the over-riding control issues I’ve always struggled massively with getting back to a healthy weight.
For ages now I’ve had my head buried firmly in the sand about being done with weight gain. The fact is I still have a few kilos left to restore to be at optimum health and my main barrier to gaining them? As shallow as it sounds, it’s what other people might think of me.

Tee: Monki | Skirt and Shoes: ASOS

It’s only now that I’m really, really ready to let go of the final shackles this illness holds over me that I realise how much this has been holding me back. Forever fearful that if I gain those last few kilos I’ll be seen as greedy, as having “let myself go” and that people will wonder why on earth I’ve made a conscious decision to gain weight when I’m no longer in a position where it’s medically critical.

I’ve done a lot of thinking on the matter and I’ve realised how futile it is to restrict my life based on my perception of what other people may think.
If someone were to judge for for getting to the healthiest place I can be, ready to live the rest of my life then which one of us has the real problem here?

In the last year my life has expanded infinitely more than my waist line. I’ve found true love, I’ve thrived at work, I’ve had more freedom than I’ve ever known and it’s all still growing. With driving, moving in with my boyfriend, and hopefully in a couple of years starting a family all on the cards – not to mention the more minor things like finally being able to exercise again, to order cake when I’m out for coffee with friends without caring about the calories not being allotted to my day…all things I haven’t done for so many years it’s frustrating to know, and to finally realise and accept that I’m the one who has been holding me back all along.

And in recent weeks I am slowly learning to let go, and writing this blog post pays a big part in this. This public declaration that I’m not done with gaining weight, that yes, I will still share outfit photos and over the coming weeks and months you will witness me return to full health and full strength- this is a massive mile stone in my recovery. Even as I type this post I feel myself wanting to delete it, for fear of what my readers and my friends might think.
It’s not an easy process and not an hour goes by at the moment where I don’t question if this is right, if I can do this, if I even want this (of course I do). Fear of weight gain goes hand in hand with this and the thought of seeing the scales creep up and my clothes getting snugger fills me with a fear that I can’t even begin to explain. But finally, the fear of not living the life I want- never getting married, never having children, compromising my relationship over-rides that fear by a mile.
No more lies, no more excuses. This is a commitment to myself and to my future with Bob, my love for my family and finally not having that constant feeling of what someone else might be thinking about me- or at not letting that thought jeopardise what I do.

This is my two fingers up to fear of being judged. Finally I have a life I love, albeit still restricted by restriction and the only way to see it grow and flourish further is to grow and to flourish myself.

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Tyre care – Why should you go to a local garage?*

I’m on a roll with the motoring themed posts lately- with the prospect of driving, and subsequently being a car owner now looking to be on the cards in the (hopefully) not too distant future this kind of content has taken on a huge relevance as I’m doing my research and sharing the wealth.

It may come as no surprise that one of the most important aspects of your car is the tyres. They are what carry you safely from A to B and having shoddy or damaged tyres will not only harm your car but will potentially put both you, and other road users at risk.

Good tyre health involves regular checks of tyre pressure, checking for any damage such as bulges or worn tread and making sure your tires are inflated correctly (too much is just as dangerous as too little). To be sure of your tyre’s health and easy booking of brand new tyres online you can consider a garage which is near to you so it is not time consuming. If you live in Dorset or anywhere else, websites like Point S can help you in buying right tyres online, hassle-free.

Your tyres are the only part of your car that touch the ground so it’s crucial to keep them well maintained and operative. They impact everything about how you drive; from supporting the weight of your vehicle to how much fuel you use.
You also need to consider different tyre types for different driving conditions, this will vary depending on what kind of journeys you make and what type of car you have.
During the warmer months, Summer tyres will help to ensure you grip on warmer roads in both wet and dry conditions. As the weather turns colder it is advised you switch to Winter tyres which will provide better traction in snowy or icy conditions, shorter breaking distances and better control of your steering.

Figuring out what’s right for your car can be a bit of a minefield as it varies so much, and many people don’t know what warning signs to look for. When it comes to replacing tires too, it pays to get a professional input- the temptation is always to order blindly online but the incorrect tyres on your car will decrease fuel economy, potentially go bald much faster and again put you and other road users at risk. Popping in to your local tyre specialists means peace of mind, long-term money saving and overall improved road safety all round.

Has anyone here ever been caught out with any tyre related mishaps? Or do you have any advice for a first time car owner and new driver? Leave any thoughts you may have in the comments.

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What to do in Bristol this Summer*

One of the numerous things I love about living in Bristol is that there is always something going on. Banish the thought of ever being bored- a quick search will reveal something going on pretty much 24/7, with a vast array of events for all ages, tastes and budgets. Here you’ll find just a small selection of what’s going on over the Summer months with my top picks – I’ll be trying to get to as many of these as I can, let me know if I might bump in to you, too.

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26th June- Grease: A 40th Anniversary Special

Fans of Grease won’t want to miss this one! The Redgrave Theatre at Clifton College are putting on a special screening to make the musical’s 40th Anniversary which promises to be an all singing, all dancing affair. Tickets cost £16.00 and are on sale now.

1st July-28th July- Bristol Shakespeare Festival

Throughout the month of July Shakespeare fans can attend performances and events at unusual locations throughout Bristol. I’ve been to a couple of these in the past and they are great! For a full schedule check out the website.

2nd July- 2nd September: Gromit Unleashed 2

The Gromit Unleashed trail is back for a second round, this time featuring two new characters in the form of Wallace and Feathers McGraw. Whether you do the entire trail, or snap a few selfies as you happen across the characters this is one of my favourite Bristol events and supports The Grand Appeal raising funds for Bristol Children’s Hospital.

20th July- 22nd July- Bristol Harbour Festival

This is an event I’ve been to many a time and always enjoy. It’s a annual, free harbour side celebration of music and arts where you can watch local talent, eat local food and get drunk on local booze. For full listings head to the website, sadly I can’t go this year but if you do, it won’t disappoint.

28th July- 30th July- Upfest

Bristol is famous for it’s plethora of graffiti and Upfest, now in it’s 10th year takes over the streets of Bedminster to showcase the best of the world’s artists. You can get a taste of previous artists and offerings here, but really this is one you have to experience for yourself.

9th August- 12th August- Bristol International Balloon Fiesta

Arguably the most famous Summer event in Bristol, the International Balloon Fiesta is a free event that takes place at Ashton Court (just outside of the city). With Balloons from all over the world taking part in spectacular displays- from the early morning ascents to the amazing night glows (all weather permitting) this is a four day event that never gets old.

Let me know if you’re planning to head to any of these, or if I’m missing any other top events in this round up- I’m always up for a new discovery or six.

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Pastel Perfection from Filofax

Is anyone else a note book hoarder? I’m sure fellow Stationery addicts will relate when I confess I have a drawer full of printed presentation folders, notebooks (and pens, my other weakness).
I can’t resist them- despite knowing I will never get through them all; nor do I want to spoil their pristine condition I often find myself in line in a shop, or clicking “add to basket”.
Filofax is a brand that has featured fairly often on the blog. It’s a brand that to me reflects quality and style and I’ve been a devoted fan since a very young age.

Their notebook range instantly took on “I need it now” status as soon as I saw it, and now I have one of their A5 Classic Pastel* notebooks in my mitts I can quite safely say that any stationery junkie also needs one.

Available in a range of gorgeous pastel shades and costing £12.99 this notebook has everything you could possibly want as a place to store your plans and scribbles. It features a twin wire spine, secure elastic closure (which is tried and tested a great game for kittens), a moveable page marker/ruler and moveable index markers meaning you can arrange your sections as you wish.
It also has the unique feature of laying completely flat when folded back on itself, and also when open.

As with most Filofax products refills and accessories are available and the pages are compatible with all A5 Filofax notebooks.
Available online and in all good stationery retailers.

I almost daren’t ask this question for fear of a severely depleted bank account, but where are your favourite places to shop for stationery? And which notebook brands stand out above the rest?
Filofax will always be the one for me- coupled with my trusty fountain pen I feel like I can take on the world.

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Notebook gifted to me by Filofax for blog consideration with no obligation to post. All thoughts and opinions are entirely my own.