Money Matters: How I Manage Mine*

These days women are more financially independent than ever, whilst retaining a unique set of challenges to managing their cash. Like it or not women still earn less than men (although this gap is closing) and are therefore less likely to save for the future. With that in mind I thought I’d share some of the ways in which I manage my personal finances, allowing me to save up for big events like moving, a holiday or even a designer handbag whilst still stashing some pennies for a rainy day (or, err things like my pension!)
1. Pocket Money: At the start of every month when I’ve been paid I withdraw a set amount of cash as my pocket money for the month and once that’s gone, it’s gone. At the moment it works out about £30 per week which has to cover everything from a coffee with a friend, lunch at work or a naughty packet of cigarettes. Having this makes sure I think twice about frittering money on takeaway lattes, posh sandwiches and all the magazines ever each week. I also give myself £50 per month for a random shopping trip with my best friend, it’s our ritual and means I still feel like I’m getting the odd treat- £50 goes a long way in hitting up Primark!
2. More is More: When it comes to my bank account it’s complicated to anyone but me. I have my main current account and off of that branches several instant access saving accounts and a cash ISA. Each pay day I transfer a set amount in to each- one is a fund for when I move out with Ben, another is a fund to pay for a holiday with Mum and another covers anything I’m going to owe on store/credit card that month. This way I can’t fritter the money away and become stuck at the end of the month, but the money is easily accessible in an emergency. I also keep what I call a “fun fund” to cover birthdays, days out and weddings. When it gets to Autumn time this gets replaced with a Christmas fund which I pay a set amount in to each month.
3. Discounts Galore: Ben and I love going out for dinner and would do so at least once a week if we could afford it. It gets pricey though and has become a rare treat whilst we both try to save. When we do go out we scour through various apps and websites (I love the voucher codes app) to get a deal on some of our favourite places. The last time we went out we found a deal for Bella Italia where you bought one main course and got another for £1. In the end two mains, a shared starter and a couple of soft drinks cost under £20!
These are just the examples I can think of off the top of my head. I’m known to be a bit obsessive over my finances (I prefer to say careful and organised!) and sometimes I do wish I could throw caution to the wind and have a splurge in Topshop! I tend to use cash for everything so I can keep track of my spends and when it came to purchasing my Mulberry bag last year it was with money I had carefully saved for goodness knows how long! I always think if the money isn’t there, don’t spend it on the basis of “but I’ll have it soon”, there’s something very satisfying about making a big purchase albeit a few months after you initially planned but knowing you saved hard and aren’t getting in to debt for it.

I’d love to know if you have any tips you’d like to share, or any insight in to how you manage your money, it can be a bit of a taboo subject but there’s no shame in talking finances. Not really.

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Simple Stripes

When we recently had a mini heatwave and I finally broke in to my Summer wardobe. Heavens knows why I look so miserable in every single one of these photos, I recall having a bad day at the time but really, is there any need to put it on to the blog? Sorry about that!

Dress: H&M (last year) | Sandals: New Look (here) | Bag: New Look (which I can’t find online)

This dress was one of H&M’s £7.99 wonders last year and is such a staple. When the weather is warm there is nothing better than chucking on a simple striped dress to get in the Summer spirit! I mentioned these sandals in a recent wish list post and whilst I have so far resisted going back for more pairs it’s only a matter of time as they are seriously so comfortable. I just had to get the glittery pair, perfect for adding some subtle sparkle to an otherwise entirely dull look and I suspect I’ll be living in these when I eventually get on holiday!
Another New Look gem was this “The Little Purrmaid” tote bag which cost all of £1.99. I can’t resist a kitty pun and judging by the reaction on my instagram neither can you guys!
What do you live in when it comes to warmer days? Also, because it’s really annoying me now- how can I get clearer photos when the sun is shining? Clearly I am a blogger failure as I just can’t work it out!

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Connected Generation

Ever hear about an idea and just know you need to be a part of it? That’s exactly how I feel when Connected Generation got in touch with me. For those who aren’t yet familiar, Connected Generation is a t-shirt company who produce ethical, custom printed tees. You can either use one of the designs submitted by artists on the site, or create your own for something truly unique. For each t-shirt purchased they donate £5 to a children’s charity, of which there are several and you can choose for yourself which one benefits.

Tee c/o Connected Generation | Skirt: ASOS (only £22, here!) | Trainers: Adidas Gazelle (available here)

I had originally hoped to use an image created for me for my tee, but after some a temporary delay on that I made it my mission to seek out something feline on the Connected Generation site. I was pointed in the direction of the ever so talented Brittany and her “pudshna” design featuring her cute kitty Pudding. I just loved how quirky this is and once it arrived I realised it made the perfect pairing for my newest skirt addition from ASOS- I saw it on the I am Into This blog and just had to have it!

The tee is the most amazing quality, I am really impressed. You can select what type of fit you want and I opted for the fitted female style in my usual size. I’ve had so many compliments on this and once my original planned image comes through I am 100% ordering myself another top!

The tees cost £25, but as mentioned a fiver of this goes straight to charity and for the quality alone they are well worth it. Let me know if you decide to go ahead and create one, or if you submit any art to the site yourself- I would love to see it!

What would feature on your custom t-shirt?

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Feeling Fruity

Fruit prints are always a winner for the Summer months, what says “sunshine and blue skies” more than adorning yourself with your favourite tropical treat? Actually, this is the first time I have succumbed to the trend (I think) but I can firmly say I’m a fan, even if the item in question isn’t the brightest of the bunch.

Dress: H&M (here) | Shoes: Primark (current stock)

Summertime should be all about easy dressing and what could be simpler than sticking on a printed dress and a pair of sandals then calling yourself good to go? I love H&M for their basic jersey dresses, at £7.99 it’s hard not to add another one to my collection every time I call in to a store. This is the first I’ve bought this year, but with some equally fabulous prints and block colours available I’m fairly certain it isn’t the last.
These sandals have exceeded my expectations in the comfort stakes. For a less than a tenner I didn’t have great hopes but I can wear these for the entire day without getting even a hint of a blister. I’ve seen so many similar styles on the high street at the moment, and on other bloggers. I’m not usually one to buy in to the hype of a shoe trend but this time I’m glad I jumped on board! I want to collect all of the colours but really don’t have the space (or need) for them.

Where do you shop for your Summer staples? H&M, Primark and New Look never seem to fail me.

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(Insta)Life Recap: 5

Welcome to my May round-up of my life via Instagram where I share some of my highlights for those of you that haven’t already clocked them at the time. Fancy seeing more? Give me a follow @daisychaindream– I’m always looking for new people to add to my stalking list!
As ever, hover over the picture for the caption and if you have any questions about anything then leave it below!

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