Optimism; “hopefulness and confidence about the future or successful outcome of something; a tendency to take a favourable or hopeful view.”
Are you an optimist? A glass half full kind of person? I’ll admit I never used to be, up until 18 months or so ago I’d look for the negative side of any situation and fixate on that, ignoring any small glimmer of hope that may be lurking.
So what changed?
I got sick. And stuck. It’s not a great situation, but weary as I was something clicked. I started planning for the future; writing list upon list of things I wanted to do, see and buy. I turned every situation in to a joke and refused to believe that things weren’t ever going to change.
And like magic,
things DID change. In a way they never had (despite my best efforts) over the previous 8 or so years and half hearted attempts at getting better.
That silver lining and never dying belief that some way and some how things were going to change (they could hardly have got worse) made me stronger and more willing to fight. I relished in every achievement and slowly but surely made progress.
I hate to sound preachy, but right now I’m living my dream. The small things I used to take for granted; shopping with friends, picnics in the park, cake with my grandparents, being able to walk, work and ride my bike I appreciate all the more.
I’m no longer ill. Or at least, I am a damn sight better than I have been for years, but there are still situations where this applies.
Work, for example is stress central right now. And for a lot of you dear readers, exams are a big worry.
Take five minutes to take a step back. Take some deep breaths. Make a list of what you want to do when this has passed (and invariably, it will)
and most importantly, no matter how big or small, look for that silver lining. I promise you it is there.
I’m writing this post in conjunction with Paul Smith and the launch of their new fragrance called Optimistic, although to be honest, everything I have written in this post has been waiting to be shared for a while.
I know I shouldn’t dwell, but I cannot believe how much my life has changed for the better, and I truly believe in the power of positive thinking.
To celebrate the launch of the fragrance (for men and women) Paul Smith are running a couple of competitions via their facebook page


– Optimistic photos: Enter your most optimistic photo, share among your friends and family to get as many like as possible. The top 50 photos win VIP entry to an exclusive Paul Smith Optimistic party featuring (among others) a Joe Goddard (Hot Chip) DJ set and Filthy Dukes. The top three photos also win £500 to spend at Paul Smith. (Competition closes at midnight on 20th May 2011).
– Optimistic Mondays: Weekly prizes won by answering a simple question. This week you can win two tickets to see Arcade Fire at the MEN Arena.
Are you an optimist or a pessimist? Do you believe in the power of positive thought?
xxx